Mates in Minutes

The trouble with so many women is that they really don’t want to hurt your feelings. They’re just too damned polite.
Or else they want to be pursued. They need to know that you think they’re worth the time and effort. (Don’t think they haven’t considered this, learned it from their mothers,…
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See that girl across the room? Ba-da-boom! That’s the one!
Buy her a drink. She smiles. You chat. She smiles. It’s all good. So you ask her out. And she . . . declines.
What happened? What did you do wrong?
Not a thing. She simply wasn’t attracted to you.
You must have been on the flip side…
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I don’t know if you’ve noticed, many men have cut back on their spending on initial dates with women.
In the past, when I was dating a few times a week, I could easily spend $500.00 - $800.00 per month dating and hanging out. I really did not have it to spend, but I felt obligated to spend…
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Dear Auntie,
I’ve got two questions that are driving me crazy.
First of all, why do men always assume that if you’re friendly and seem to like them ok, of course you want to have sex with them? They even ask you, "Why don’t you want to have sex with me?" Like, what am I supposed to tell them? I…
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Recent studies have already shown that women are more likely to stray during their fertile period each month—the 48 hours or so of ovulation. They’re also more likely to be attracted to macho-type guys (dominant "alpha" males) during that same couple of days.
Now it turns out, according to yet…
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It may seem as though the mating game is little more than a crapshoot—at least on those days when you keep coming up snake eyes.
That’s not entirely true, though. As with most things, there are rules. Know them, use them, and the odds can shift heavily in your favor.
Rule I. The mere-exposure…
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Virtual libraries have been written about rejection—how to survive it, how to rise above it. You’ve seen the titles: 3 techniques, 9 phases, 18 steps to . . . deal with it. The truth is, you will survive it (unless you decide not to), and you can learn from it, if you’re straight with…
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Asking for that first date is one thing; making it turn out great is something else again. You want to get to know each other better, have fun, fan the flames, and—if all goes well—clinch a second date.
No problem. All you need is an entertaining activity that stimulates all those good-buzz brain…
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