Mates in Minutes

I received a disturbing email last night.
It was from a woman who said her husband had contacted me and other women without her knowing about it. As I had sent nothing back but an email addressed to the both of them (it had been signed with both their names) thanking them for introducing…
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This morning I was reading about a female who met someone online over a month ago. The relationship moved fast and both she and the man consider themselves to be one another’s “boyfriend” and “girlfriend.” She states that she feels as if she’s known him for all of her life because they talk all the…
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It’s interesting, isn’t it? That as we age, our perceptions about what beauty is expands…and someone we might not have found attractive years ago suddenly becomes appealing.
Does this mean we have settled? Or are we merely growing up?
I think it means we are growing up. And I think it’s great…
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What does everyone know about relationships?
We know we’re supposed to be kind.
We know we’re supposed to be supporting/supportive of our partner.
We know that we’re supposed to be a “we” and not an “I.”
We know we’re supposed to honor our own feelings as much as we respect any others.
We…
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When I first heard about online dating a few years ago, it was just in its infancy and so of course, there were a great many comments, both positive and negative, to be made about it. Now, years later, there still are.
What exactly is an online dater? It’s someone who has centered their focus on…
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This morning in my inbox I received an email from a lovely and sensitive woman I’ve been corresponding with for awhile. She’s been depressed lately and her depression has been intensified by what she perceives as a “lack of solution” through the online personals. I asked her what she meant by…
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For our entire lives we will be involved in relationships. I’m not just talking about the one-on-one romantic relationship but all the other kinds of relationships that we come across: friendships, relationships with co-workers, family ties. Sometimes there are even relationships that defy…
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If there’s one suggestion that I could give to men, it would be to tell them: let the woman set the pace of the relationship.

I am aware that many men, often unconsciously, like to perceive women as fantasy creatures who are full of light, beauty, sexuality and understanding; but it’s time to…
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