Mates in Minutes

This morning in my inbox I received an email from a lovely and sensitive woman I’ve been corresponding with for awhile. She’s been depressed lately and her depression has been intensified by what she perceives as a “lack of solution” through the online personals. I asked her what she meant by…
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For our entire lives we will be involved in relationships. I’m not just talking about the one-on-one romantic relationship but all the other kinds of relationships that we come across: friendships, relationships with co-workers, family ties. Sometimes there are even relationships that defy…
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If there’s one suggestion that I could give to men, it would be to tell them: let the woman set the pace of the relationship.

I am aware that many men, often unconsciously, like to perceive women as fantasy creatures who are full of light, beauty, sexuality and understanding; but it’s time to…
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From Part I:
 “…. .To men, it is all about size and beauty! Some of them won’t even talk to girls who have too small breasts or too large ones or whose butt is too wide or nose is too long …so, if I have some of these imperfections but I know how to make love, and if I send a picture of a…
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I read something interesting on a friend’s blog today. He said he’s been reading a lot of women’s complaints of the men who just send them pictures of their cocks in an initial introduction or because these guys think that this is what turns the ladies on. He went on to say that as far as he is…
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Today I met with a new friend whom I shall hereafter rename my “adventure buddy”.
This adventure buddy has tried swinging a couple of times and wanted to know if I was interested at all in participating. Considering that I move as slow as a nun forced to suck a priest’s cock, I told him that…
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Hear ye! Hear ye! Be it known forever more that BBWs (big beautiful women) LOVE sex!Now, this isn’t news to any of us BBWs. In fact we’ve known this about ourselves for years. We know we like sex! We now that our appetite for sex is equal to our appetite for good food! Not like sex? Why wouldn’t…
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“Engage the mind, share some laughter, exchange thoughts…now there’s a recipe for attraction,” is what I wrote to someone in an email just the other night. And if you are a person who is involved in the process of online dating or just trying to establish some sort of relationship with someone…
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The bar was fun. They each had a Guinness, which she found she enjoyed. They laughed and talked and occasionally their thighs bumped together. Her pink bra strap kept peering out from underneath her pink-and-white top as it kept sliding off her shoulder and she saw him look once or twice. He liked…
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The directions had been fairly well written out but she still didn’t expect the hotel to loom up so quickly when she took that second left turn. A little startled, she drove to the parking garage where a sullen-faced woman grudgingly let her through. Driving up two levels, she parked her car in a…
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